المجاملة للناس لا تعنى نفاقهم فالنفاق يعنى مدح الناس ووصفهم بصفات ليست فيهم اما Courtesy فهي عبارة عن عبارت رقيقة نقولها للاشخاص

to win their goodwill, show appreciation for what they do, lift their spirits, and recognize qualities they genuinely possess. Complimenting is an art, and anyone who wants to succeed in many situations should learn it. People who struggle to express themselves or don’t know how to compliment others often face difficulties in life, even when they feel

respect and appreciation for others. To support what we’re saying about compliments, many studies have confirmed that more than 85% of success in relationships between people comes from

الاحترام والتقدير للاخرين، ولكي نوثق ما نقولة عن المجاملة فقد اكدت الكثير من الدراسات ان اكثر من 85% من نجاح العلاقات مع الناس ببعضهم

It comes down to how people interact and show courtesy to one another. Since courtesy is important, we’ve decided to share some tips to help you master this art and

take a different, better path in life.

فن Courtesy في ثماني خطوات:

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1- Remember the names and faces of the people you deal with, even if you only see them occasionally.

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2- Tell others what they like to hear, and mention their achievements, how they succeeded, and more.

3- Keep other people’s secrets. This is also a recommendation of the heavenly religions.

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4- Letting others know that you value them and see them as more than just ordinary people is a kind of compliment that lifts their spirits.

5- If you make a mistake, admit it. Don’t keep arguing or insisting you’re right; doing so can create a barrier between you and others.

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6- Be humble and don’t look down on others, even if they have a lower position, less education, or any other perceived disadvantage. Arrogance is not a manly trait.

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7- Use forms of address such as “you” when speaking to others so they don’t feel ignored.

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8- Laugh with others, not at them. Listen more than you speak, and keep smiling.