{"id":23177,"date":"2021-01-05T12:01:47","date_gmt":"2021-01-05T09:01:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/?p=23177"},"modified":"2021-01-05T12:06:03","modified_gmt":"2021-01-05T09:06:03","slug":"your-chattering-colleague-how-do-you-deal-with-him","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/your-chattering-colleague-how-do-you-deal-with-him\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Talkative Colleague: How to Deal With Them"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/resources.stuff.co.nz\/content\/dam\/images\/1\/i\/k\/j\/8\/g\/image.related.StuffLandscapeSixteenByNine.710x400.1ikiyi.png\/1492480086264.jpg\" alt=\"12 tips to shut up a noisy coworker without making them hate you | Stuff.co.nz\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/how-do-you-deal-with-your-talkative-colleague\/\">Chatty colleague<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>A major challenge for employees and managers alike: chatty coworkers drain their colleagues\u2019 energy, waste their time, and distract them <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u2014disrupting the company\u2019s workflow and hurting team productivity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">So how should you deal with a chatty coworker?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0636\u0639 \u0633\u0645\u0627\u0639\u0627\u062a \u0623\u0630\u0646<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0627\u0644\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a \u0646\u0639\u064a\u0634 \u0641\u064a\u0647\u060c \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0648\u0636\u0639 \u0633\u0645\u0627\u0639\u0627\u062a \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0630\u0646 \u0623\u0635\u0628\u062d \u0625\u062d\u062f\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0644\u0627\u0645\u0627\u062a \u0623\u0634\u0628\u0647 \u0628\u0644\u0627\u0641\u062a\u0629 &#8220;\u0645\u0645\u0646\u0648\u0639 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u0632\u0639\u0627\u062c&#8221; \u0627\u0644\u062a\u064a \u062a\u0648\u0636\u0639 \u0639\u0644\u0649<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> hotel doors. And the more you look focused on your work, the less likely your colleague is to interrupt you and talk about things <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">that have nothing to do with work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Avoid interruptions from the outset\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">You can simply and politely ask the person interrupting you to finish what they were saying, then share their point of view at the end. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Or, at the start of the meeting, remind everyone not to interrupt and to save any additional points until the end.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>.<\/div>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u00a0\u0627\u0639\u062a\u0630\u0631 \u0644\u0647 \u0628\u0623\u062f\u0628<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Politely apologize to your colleagues and let them know you need to get back to work. For example, tell them you have to deliver this task by a specific time,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> or tell them you\u2019ll call them after work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0648\u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0643\u0646 \u0644\u062f\u064a\u0643 \u0639\u0630\u0631 \u062c\u064a\u062f\u060c \u0641\u0631\u0628\u0645\u0627 \u062a\u0631\u064a\u062f \u062a\u0642\u0648\u0644 \u0644\u0647 \u0628\u0628\u0633\u0627\u0637\u0629: &#8220;\u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0642\u064a\u0642\u0629 \u0623\u0631\u064a\u062f \u0623\u0646 \u0622\u062a\u062d\u062f\u062b \u0625\u0644\u064a\u0643\u060c \u0648\u0644\u0643\u0646\u064a \u0623\u062d\u0627\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0631\u0643\u064a\u0632 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0634\u064a\u0621 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0623\u0639\u0645\u0644 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647\u060c \u0644\u0630\u0644\u0643 \u0633\u0648\u0641 \u0623\u062a\u062d\u062f\u062b \u0625\u0644\u064a\u0643 \u0641\u064a \u0648\u0642\u062a \u0644\u0627\u062d\u0642\u060c \u0622\u0639\u0637\u0646\u064a \u0631\u0628\u0645\u0627 \u0633\u0627\u0639\u0629 \u0623\u0648 \u0633\u0627\u0639\u062a\u064a\u0646 \u0648\u0633\u0648\u0641 \u0623\u0639\u0648\u062f \u0625\u0644\u064a\u0643&#8221;. \u0648\u0641\u064a \u0647\u0630\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0627\u0644\u0629 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">use a warm, friendly tone, and don\u2019t be rude.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0627\u0642\u0631\u0623 \u0623\u064a\u0636\u0627\u064b :<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/malicious-colleague\/\">Your Toxic Coworker: How to Deal with Them<\/a><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u00a0If the conversation is work-related, schedule a meeting<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">If your colleague keeps interrupting you to talk about work, it may be best to schedule a meeting to discuss everything <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">and answer all questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #0000ff;\">Avoid interruptions from the outset\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">You can simply and politely ask the person interrupting you to finish what they were saying, then share their point of view at the end.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> Or, at the start of the meeting, remind everyone not to interrupt and to save any additional points until the end.<\/span><\/div>\n<div>.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0627\u0642\u0631\u0623 \u0623\u064a\u0636\u0627\u064b:<span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/%d9%83%d9%8a%d9%81-%d8%aa%d8%aa%d8%b5%d8%b1%d9%81-%d9%85%d8%b9-%d8%b2%d9%85%d9%8a%d9%84-%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%b9%d9%85%d9%84-%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%b0%d9%8a-%d9%8a%d8%aa%d8%ac%d8%a7%d9%87%d9%84%d9%83-%d8%9f\/\">How to Deal with a Coworker Who Ignores You<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<div>.<\/div>\n<div><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/images.tmcnet.com\/tmc\/misc\/articles\/image\/2018-nov\/bigstock-office-noise-noisy-stress-loud-189593335-supersize.jpg\" alt=\"Some Noises Reduce Productivity, Others Can Aid It\" width=\"680\" height=\"364\" \/><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0648\u0627\u062c\u0647\u0629<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">If your colleague\u2019s chatter becomes a serious problem, you can address it and politely explain that it\u2019s keeping you from <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">your work and distracting you, then ask them to save the conversation until after you\u2019ve finished working.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Speak in the plural\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">One of the biggest mistakes you can make with a colleague who interrupts is addressing them directly in front of everyone in a rude way.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">This can embarrass them. Instead, you can speak in the plural without singling them out, thereby avoiding<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">interruptions without embarrassing them.<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0645\u064a\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u062b\u0631\u062b\u0627\u0631\u00a0\u0645\u0634\u0643\u0644\u0629 \u0643\u0628\u064a\u0631\u0629 \u062a\u0648\u0627\u062c\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0648\u0638\u0641\u064a\u0646 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0633\u0624\u0648\u0644\u064a\u0646\u060c \u0641\u0647\u0645 \u064a\u0647\u062f\u0631\u0648\u0646 \u0637\u0627\u0642\u0629 \u0632\u0645\u0644\u0627\u0626\u0647\u0645\u060c \u0648\u064a\u0636\u064a\u0639\u0648\u0646 \u0648\u0642\u062a\u0647\u0645\u060c \u0648\u064a\u0634\u062a\u062a\u0648\u0646 \u0627\u0646\u062a\u0628\u0627\u0647\u0647\u0645\u060c \u0645\u0627 \u064a\u0624\u062b\u0631 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0633\u064a\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0645\u0644 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0631\u0643\u0629\u060c \u0648\u064a\u0636\u0631 \u0628\u0625\u0646\u062a\u0627\u062c\u064a\u0629 \u0641\u0631\u064a\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0645\u0644.<span class=\"excerpt-hellip\"> [\u2026]<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":23182,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_ibtdi_aa_focus_keyword":"","_ibtdi_aa_secondary_keywords":"","_ibtdi_aa_audience":"","_ibtdi_aa_tone":"","_ibtdi_aa_summary":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_name":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_bio":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_url":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewed_date":"","_ibtdi_aa_service_id":"","_ibtdi_aa_related_ids":"","_ibtdi_aa_human_reviewed":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable_links":"","_ibtdi_aa_sources":"","_ibtdi_aa_update_notes":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[491],"tags":[19753,3027,22998,2055,22996,22997],"class_list":["post-23177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-491","tag-19753","tag-3027","tag-22998","tag-2055","tag-22996","tag-22997"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23177"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23177\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23182"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}