{"id":22810,"date":"2020-10-18T16:49:07","date_gmt":"2020-10-18T13:49:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/?p=22810"},"modified":"2020-10-18T16:49:07","modified_gmt":"2020-10-18T13:49:07","slug":"honest-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/honest-at-work\/","title":{"rendered":"What Are the Rules for Being Honest at Work?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/max\/588\/1*PJW5FQ7t3-7rTLfShMCqSg.jpeg\" alt=\"5 Simple Ways to Create a Good Office Culture | by Sampurna Majumder |  Medium\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">People lie\u2014that\u2019s an unavoidable fact. I don\u2019t need to prove it by citing a study at the University of Massachusetts that found <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">that 60% of people lie at least once during a ten-minute conversation, with many telling two or three lies <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">in that time. But honesty at work is a much more complicated matter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Although companies emphasize the importance of honesty and transparency, their words rarely go beyond theory. In a situation like this <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Employees find themselves caught between a rock and a hard place: if they\u2019re completely honest and direct, they may risk getting fired <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">or at least being treated unfairly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">But if they keep their opinions to themselves, their credibility may be called into question. To help them navigate this predicament, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">we\u2019ll look at some situations where you should be completely honest, and others where you should keep your opinions to yourself, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">so let\u2019s explore the issue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Read also:<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/seven-tips-to-work-with-more-experienced-and-intelligent-people-than-you\/\">7 Tips for Working with People Who Are More Experienced and Smarter Than You<\/a><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0623\u062e\u0637\u0623\u062a\u064e \u0641\u0627\u0639\u062a\u0631\u0641<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">What we should emphasize here is that we\u2019re considering honesty only from a practical, professional standpoint. Ethically, of course, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">it\u2019s understood that people should own up to their mistakes, but failing to do so at work can have serious consequences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">We know that lying can be tempting, especially when you\u2019ve made a mistake, as can evading responsibility and trying to blame others. But if you <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">want to maintain your credibility, you need to explain exactly what happened, including your own role in the mistake. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">If you make a mistake, admit it\u2014but try to prevent the same mistake from happening again. That\u2019s the ideal approach.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0637\u064f\u0644\u0628 \u0631\u0623\u064a\u0643<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">You shouldn\u2019t be deceptive. If your employer asks for your opinion on something, such as a work process or how to increase rates <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Production, etc. You should assess the situation based on real facts and evidence, and be transparent and objective.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">It\u2019s also important to consider how your employer might respond to your candid feedback. But remember: people appreciate someone who genuinely wants to help them<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> move forward and grow their business. Also, keep in mind that withholding your opinion or staying silent can make you seem like an employee<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> who is indifferent or irresponsible\u2014 a position you should avoid putting yourself in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Read also:<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/4-tips-to-gain-attention-in-meetings-and-communication-networks\/\">4 Tips for Making an Impression at Meetings and Networking Events<\/a><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u0643\u0646 \u0648\u0627\u0634\u064a\u064b\u0627<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">If a colleague isn\u2019t behaving professionally\u2014for example, spending two full hours away from work or getting caught up in<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> browsing their Facebook account during work hours\u2014that\u2019s not your concern, and you should never be a snitch.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">It\u2019s true that telling your manager or team leader about such behavior might earn you some favor, but first, that\u2019s only a possibility, not a certainty, and <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">That way, you needlessly set yourself against your colleagues. As long as someone\u2019s behavior hasn\u2019t affected you, it\u2019s none of your business.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Keep in mind that reporting on your colleagues is not the same as being candid at work, and it can get you into trouble too. If you\u2019re late, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">even by a few minutes, arrive late to a meeting, or spend too long in the break room, you\u2019ll find plenty of colleagues ready to report you to<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> the very manager you reported them to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">If you\u2019re having a rough day, keep quiet<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">There are many reasons we might be in a bad mood, but once you get to work, make sure you don\u2019t take your frustration out on anyone. Most importantly, don\u2019t <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">lash out at a colleague\u2014speaking that way could put you at risk. And if your manager asks why you\u2019re upset today, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">You can simply say, \u201cI don\u2019t think I slept well last night,\u201d without going into details.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">And know that taking your anger out on your coworkers won\u2019t help\u2014it won\u2019t make you feel any better. Instead, it will make things <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">worse, and the impression you leave on them will be bad enough as it is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">These are examples of some situations in which you should be honest at work, or in which you need to<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> \u062a\u0644\u0632\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0645\u062a.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0627\u0633 \u064a\u0643\u0630\u0628\u0648\u0646\u060c \u0647\u0630\u0647 \u062d\u0642\u064a\u0642\u0629 \u0644\u0627 \u0645\u0641\u0631 \u0645\u0646\u0647\u0627\u060c \u0648\u0644\u0633\u062a \u0628\u062d\u0627\u062c\u0629 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0623\u0646 \u0623\u062f\u0644\u0644 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0630\u0644\u0643 \u0628\u0623\u0646 \u062f\u0631\u0627\u0633\u0629 \u0641\u064a \u062c\u0627\u0645\u0639\u0629 \u201c\u0645\u0627\u0633\u0627\u062a\u0634\u0648\u0633\u062a\u0633\u201d \u0648\u062c\u062f\u062a \u0623\u0646 60% \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0627\u0633 \u064a\u0643\u0630\u0628\u0648\u0646<span class=\"excerpt-hellip\"> [\u2026]<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":22811,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_ibtdi_aa_focus_keyword":"","_ibtdi_aa_secondary_keywords":"","_ibtdi_aa_audience":"","_ibtdi_aa_tone":"","_ibtdi_aa_summary":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_name":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_bio":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_url":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewed_date":"","_ibtdi_aa_service_id":"","_ibtdi_aa_related_ids":"","_ibtdi_aa_human_reviewed":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable_links":"","_ibtdi_aa_sources":"","_ibtdi_aa_update_notes":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[491],"tags":[22600,22601,22602,22603,22604,22605,22606,22607,22608,22609],"class_list":["post-22810","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-491","tag-22600","tag-22601","tag-22602","tag-22603","tag-22604","tag-22605","tag-22606","tag-22607","tag-22608","tag-22609"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22810","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22810"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22810\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22811"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22810"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22810"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22810"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}