{"id":20003,"date":"2019-11-06T12:12:31","date_gmt":"2019-11-06T09:12:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/?p=20003"},"modified":"2019-11-06T01:24:52","modified_gmt":"2019-11-05T22:24:52","slug":"praise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/praise\/","title":{"rendered":"Praise Is a Double-Edged Sword: How Can It Discourage Employees?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.incimages.com\/uploaded_files\/image\/970x450\/getty_497183120_345620.jpg\" alt=\"\u0646\u062a\u064a\u062c\u0629 \u0628\u062d\u062b \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0648\u0631 \u0639\u0646 \u202aPraise\u202c\u200f\" width=\"759\" height=\"352\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Some people treat<strong>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%aa%d8%b3%d9%88%d9%8a%d9%82-%d8%a8%d8%a7%d9%84%d9%85%d8%af%d8%ad-%d8%a7%d8%b3%d8%aa%d8%b1%d8%a7%d8%aa%d9%8a%d8%ac%d9%8a%d8%a9-%d8%b3%d8%b1%d9%87%d8%a7-%d8%a7%d9%84%d9%83%d9%84%d9%85\/\">Praise<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0\u0648\u0627\u0644\u062b\u0646\u0627\u0621 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0623\u0646\u0647 \u0623\u0645\u0631 \u0642\u0627\u0628\u0644 \u0644\u0644\u0646\u0641\u0627\u0630\u060c \u0648\u064a\u0639\u062a\u0642\u062f\u0648\u0646 \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u0642\u062f\u064a\u0645 \u0623\u0643\u0628\u0631 \u0642\u062f\u0631 \u0645\u0645\u0643\u0646 \u0645\u0646<strong>\u00a0Praise<\/strong>\u00a0\u0648\u0627\u0644\u062b\u0646\u0627\u0621 \u064a\u0633\u0627\u0639\u062f \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0642\u062f\u0645 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u062c\u0627\u062d\u060c \u0641\u0647\u0630\u0647 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">the philosophy we learn early in life, but we run into reality when we enter the workplace and discover that praising someone\u2019s performance doesn\u2019t always lead to success.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Everyone needs to understand\u2014especially managers, senior leaders, and those who manage teams\u2014that praise is a renewable resource. When it is given <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">in the right way, praise and recognition help the brain work better, motivating people to develop themselves and improve their performance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">Using praise the wrong way<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Managers and administrators in schools or companies often use praise <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/encouragement-and-rebuke-which-can-you-succeed\/\">Praise<\/a> the wrong way, with counterproductive results. Instead of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/effective-ways-to-motivate-employees\/\">\u062a\u062d\u0641\u064a\u0632 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0648\u0638\u0641\u064a\u0646<\/a> On<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> helping people work better, carry out their projects, and achieve their ambitions, they discourage them and kill their passion and desire to work. This happens when<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> They compare rather than praise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Comparing employees and using superlatives when speaking to them doesn\u2019t make them feel secure, as some people believe. Instead, it makes them feel threatened and insecure, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">because their managers haven\u2019t praised their performance, intelligence, or job skills. Instead, they\u2019ve told them they\u2019re better than other people\u2014which means that anyone could become <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">better than them at any moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">\u0639\u0648\u0627\u0642\u0628 \u0648\u062e\u064a\u0645\u0629<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">If you want to help others improve and motivate them to work, don\u2019t compare them. No matter how well-intentioned you are or how sincerely you want to<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> help them move forward, the consequences will be severe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0641\u0643\u0631 \u0641\u064a \u0639\u062f\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0627\u062a \u0627\u0644\u062a\u064a \u0646\u0642\u0639 \u0641\u064a\u0647\u0627 \u0641\u064a \u0641\u062e \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0642\u0627\u0631\u0646\u0629\u060c \u0642\u062f \u062a\u0633\u062a\u062e\u062f\u0645 \u0628\u0639\u0636 \u0639\u0628\u0627\u0631\u0627\u062a \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0641\u0636\u064a\u0644 \u0645\u062b\u0644 &#8220;\u0623\u0646\u062a \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0641\u0636\u0644\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0630\u0643\u0649\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0644\u0637\u0641\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0645\u0647\u0631&#8221;\u060c \u0644\u0623\u0646\u0643 \u0639\u0646\u062f\u0645\u0627 \u062a\u064f\u062e\u0628\u0631 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">a limited number of people that they are better than others at anything, you undermine everyone else\u2019s efforts to improve and discourage them from striving for success.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Managers should stop giving praise based on comparisons. The best way to do this is to eliminate some of the words that are often used, such as <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">&#8220;\u0627\u0644\u0623\u0641\u0636\u0644&#8221;\u060c &#8220;\u0627\u0644\u0623\u0633\u0631\u0639&#8221;\u060c &#8220;\u0627\u0644\u0623\u0630\u0643\u0649&#8221;\u060c &#8220;\u0627\u0644\u0623\u062c\u0645\u0644&#8221;. \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0636\u0631\u0648\u0631\u064a \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u062a\u0648\u0642\u0641 \u0639\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u0634\u0627\u062f\u0629 \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0648\u0638\u0641\u064a\u0646 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u062d\u0633\u0627\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u062e\u0631\u064a\u0646.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">\u0646\u062a\u0627\u0626\u062c \u062e\u0637\u064a\u0631\u0629<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u00a0\u0641\u064a \u0639\u0627\u0644\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0645\u0644\u060c \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0642\u0627\u0631\u0646\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0633\u062a\u0645\u0631\u0629 \u0628\u064a\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0648\u0638\u0641\u064a\u0646 \u0642\u062f \u062a\u0642\u0648\u062f \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0646\u062a\u0627\u0626\u062c \u062e\u0637\u064a\u0631\u0629 \u062a\u0624\u062b\u0631 \u0641\u064a \u0628\u062f\u0627\u064a\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0645\u0631 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0641\u0631\u064a\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0645\u0644\u060c \u0648\u0645\u0646 \u062b\u0645 \u064a\u0632\u062f\u0627\u062f \u062a\u0623\u062b\u064a\u0631\u0647\u0627 \u0648\u062a\u0642\u0648\u0636 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">the organization\u2019s efforts to make progress and reach the top.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Research on this subject found that managers who constantly evaluate and compare employees, ranking some as top performers,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> may\u2014perhaps unintentionally\u2014create <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/positive-work-environment\/\">\u0628\u064a\u0626\u0629 \u0639\u0645\u0644<\/a>\u00a0\u0645\u0634\u062d\u0648\u0646\u0629 \u0645\u0644\u064a\u0626\u0629 \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0636\u063a\u0627\u0626\u0646\u060c \u0645\u0627 \u064a\u0624\u062b\u0631 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0623\u062f\u0627\u0621 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0648\u0638\u0641\u064a\u0646.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u00a0\u0648\u0644\u062d\u0633\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u0638\u060c \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0628\u0639\u0636 \u0627\u0644\u0634\u0631\u0643\u0627\u062a \u062a\u062a\u0628\u0646\u0649 \u0647\u0630\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0641\u0643\u0631\u0629. \u0648\u0628\u0627\u0644\u0639\u0648\u062f\u0629 \u0625\u0644\u0649 \u0639\u0627\u0645 2011\u060c \u0641\u0625\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0625\u062f\u0627\u0631\u0629 \u0641\u064a \u0634\u0631\u0643\u0629 &#8220;\u0623\u062f\u0648\u0628\u064a&#8221; \u0639\u0642\u062f\u062a \u0627\u062c\u062a\u0645\u0627\u0639\u064b\u0627 \u0644\u0645\u0646\u0627\u0642\u0634\u0629 \u0645\u0627 \u0627\u0639\u062a\u0628\u0631\u0648\u0647 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">a major problem and obstacle that could hinder the company\u2019s progress and prevent it from succeeding: its employee performance review system. The board decided to abandon the system because of its negative impact <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">on top talent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">General Electric, one of the first companies to adopt employee performance reviews, also decided to abandon <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">the practice entirely after confirming its negative impact on its employees.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0648\u0647\u0646\u0627\u0643 \u0642\u0648\u0644 \u0645\u0623\u062b\u0648\u0631 \u064a\u0642\u0648\u0644 \u0625\u0646 &#8220;\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0642\u0627\u0631\u0646\u0629 \u062a\u0633\u0631\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062a\u0639\u0629&#8221;\u060c \u0644\u0630\u0627 \u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0643\u0646\u062a \u062a\u0631\u064a\u062f \u062d\u0642\u064b\u0627 \u0645\u0633\u0627\u0639\u062f\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0622\u062e\u0631\u064a\u0646 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0625\u0635\u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0645\u0647\u0627\u0631\u0627\u062a\u0647\u0645 \u0648\u062a\u0637\u0648\u064a\u0631 \u0623\u0646\u0641\u0633\u0647\u0645\u060c \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0648\u0642\u0641 \u0639\u0646 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">comparing them immediately.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u064a\u062a\u0639\u0627\u0645\u0644 \u0628\u0639\u0636 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0627\u0633 \u0645\u0639\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0645\u062f\u062d\u00a0\u0648\u0627\u0644\u062b\u0646\u0627\u0621 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0623\u0646\u0647 \u0623\u0645\u0631 \u0642\u0627\u0628\u0644 \u0644\u0644\u0646\u0641\u0627\u0630\u060c \u0648\u064a\u0639\u062a\u0642\u062f\u0648\u0646 \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u0642\u062f\u064a\u0645 \u0623\u0643\u0628\u0631 \u0642\u062f\u0631 \u0645\u0645\u0643\u0646 \u0645\u0646\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0645\u062f\u062d\u00a0\u0648\u0627\u0644\u062b\u0646\u0627\u0621 \u064a\u0633\u0627\u0639\u062f \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0642\u062f\u0645 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0646\u062c\u0627\u062d\u060c \u0641\u0647\u0630\u0647 \u0647\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0641\u0644\u0633\u0641\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u064a \u0646\u062a\u0639\u0644\u0645\u0647\u0627<span class=\"excerpt-hellip\"> [\u2026]<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":20004,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_ibtdi_aa_focus_keyword":"","_ibtdi_aa_secondary_keywords":"","_ibtdi_aa_audience":"","_ibtdi_aa_tone":"","_ibtdi_aa_summary":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_name":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_bio":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_url":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewed_date":"","_ibtdi_aa_service_id":"","_ibtdi_aa_related_ids":"","_ibtdi_aa_human_reviewed":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable_links":"","_ibtdi_aa_sources":"","_ibtdi_aa_update_notes":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[491],"tags":[10788,8552,9102,3372],"class_list":["post-20003","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-491","tag-10788","tag-8552","tag-9102","tag-3372"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20003","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20003"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20003\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20004"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20003"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20003"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20003"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}