{"id":19897,"date":"2019-10-22T22:31:56","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T19:31:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/?p=19897"},"modified":"2019-10-22T22:31:56","modified_gmt":"2019-10-22T19:31:56","slug":"how-to-prevent-disaster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/how-to-prevent-disaster\/","title":{"rendered":"How Can You Prevent a Disaster?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/betanews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/angry_man_contentfullwidth.jpg\" alt=\"\u0635\u0648\u0631\u0629 \u0630\u0627\u062a \u0635\u0644\u0629\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Managing difficult interactions is how we navigate challenging situations, whether in our everyday lives or in the workplace. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Work. It is a well-known fact that no life is free of problems. Since work is part of life, it involves many difficult situations. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">And crises, and communication breakdowns.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">In any case, difficult interactions\u2014the management of which we aim to offer a particular approach to here\u2014are defined by writer and author Barry Rosen as interactions with <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">others that occur when the question we ask has no quick, readily available answer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Most of the time, these difficult situations arise when we feel afraid, threatened, or insecure, causing stress and frustration. As a result, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">the way we handle different matters and the situations we encounter from time to time is disrupted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Managing difficult situations takes both internal and external effort. Internally, it involves managing our emotions and automatic thoughts. Externally, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">it means treating the other person\u2014the person on the other side of the difficult situation\u2014with kindness, insight, and tact.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">Difficult interactions: An overview<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">There are many examples of these difficult interactions, such as when you find that a friend is always hostile to your ideas and pushes back against every opinion you share, or when your manager mocks you during a <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">meeting, or a customer makes unreasonable demands.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">These difficult interactions or situations can occur between any two people interacting in any context. They can escalate, and are generally<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> the result of interactions between two people who disagree on their perspectives, goals, and assumptions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Since these difficult situations can escalate, making matters worse and more complicated, it is essential to nip them in the bud and not allow them <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">to worsen whenever possible. We should keep in mind that allowing these difficult situations to escalate can have serious consequences, such as declining productivity and strained, obstructive relationships in <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0639\u0644\u0627\u0642\u0627\u062a \u0645\u0642\u064a\u062f\u0629 \u0648\u0645\u0639\u0631\u0642\u0644\u0629 \u0641\u064a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/help-the-optimists-in-the-work-environment\/\">Work Environment<\/a>\u2014not to mention that they are a waste of time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">Confrontation is inevitable<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Managing difficult situations requires, first and foremost, facing and resisting them\u2014and, as the true starting point, acknowledging that they exist and that the workplace <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">in its natural, dynamic state involves some obstacles and challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">The only people authorized and responsible for addressing and managing these challenges are the managers of the company in question.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">Benefits of Conflict Management:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Although managing difficult interactions and confronting workplace conflicts is no easy task, it is important <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">and offers several benefits, including the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">1- Interactions become easier to manage once we acknowledge they exist; things remain difficult as long as we\u2019re afraid to face them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">2- Prevent situations from escalating and avert a crisis.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">3- In difficult situations, managers have greater freedom to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/six-steps-to-take-decisions\/\">Making decisions<\/a>which gives them a sense of self-respect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">4. Managing difficult interactions and navigating challenging situations helps strengthen relationships in the workplace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">Management as a Fundamental Solution:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Difficult situations and interactions will always arise as long as people differ in their perspectives, temperaments, and goals. We must therefore first accept this <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">as a given, then work to manage these situations and address each difficult situation promptly and in the moment to prevent matters from escalating.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> \u0648\u0648\u0642\u0648\u0639 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0627\u0631\u062b\u0629.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; \u0625\u062f\u0627\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0641\u0627\u0639\u0644\u0627\u062a \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0639\u0628\u0629 \u0647\u064a \u062a\u0644\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u064a\u0641\u064a\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u064a \u0646\u062a\u0645\u0643\u0646 \u0639\u0646 \u0637\u0631\u064a\u0642\u0647\u0627 \u0645\u0646 \u062a\u062c\u0627\u0648\u0632 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0648\u0627\u0642\u0641 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062a\u0639\u0633\u0631\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u064a \u062a\u0639\u062a\u0631\u0636\u0646\u0627\u060c \u0633\u0648\u0627\u0621 \u0641\u064a \u062d\u064a\u0627\u062a\u0646\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u064a\u0648\u0645\u064a\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0627\u062f\u064a\u0629\u060c \u0623\u0648 \u0641\u064a \u0628\u064a\u0626\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0645\u0644.<span class=\"excerpt-hellip\"> [\u2026]<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":19898,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_ibtdi_aa_focus_keyword":"","_ibtdi_aa_secondary_keywords":"","_ibtdi_aa_audience":"","_ibtdi_aa_tone":"","_ibtdi_aa_summary":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_name":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_bio":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewer_url":"","_ibtdi_aa_reviewed_date":"","_ibtdi_aa_service_id":"","_ibtdi_aa_related_ids":"","_ibtdi_aa_human_reviewed":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable":"","_ibtdi_aa_disable_links":"","_ibtdi_aa_sources":"","_ibtdi_aa_update_notes":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[491],"tags":[19879,19880,12134,4016,19882,19881],"class_list":["post-19897","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-491","tag-19879","tag-19880","tag-12134","tag-4016","tag-19882","tag-19881"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19897","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19897"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19897\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19898"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19897"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19897"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19897"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}