{"id":18346,"date":"2019-04-01T22:04:04","date_gmt":"2019-04-01T19:04:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/?p=18346"},"modified":"2019-04-01T22:04:04","modified_gmt":"2019-04-01T19:04:04","slug":"12-step-to-be-the-owner-of-an-influential-word","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/12-step-to-be-the-owner-of-an-influential-word\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Steps to Becoming an Influential Voice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.arrajol.com\/sites\/default\/files\/2018\/06\/19\/181936-thumbnail_how-to-overcome-the-fear-of-public-speaking.jpg\" alt=\"\u00d9\u0086\u00d8\u00aa\u00d9\u008a\u00d8\u00ac\u00d8\u00a9 \u00d8\u00a8\u00d8\u00ad\u00d8\u00ab \u00d8\u00a7\u00d9\u0084\u00d8\u00b5\u00d9\u0088\u00d8\u00b1 \u00d8\u00b9\u00d9\u0086 12 \u00d8\u00ae\u00d8\u00b7\u00d9\u0088\u00d8\u00a9 \u00d9\u0084\u00d8\u00aa\u00d9\u0083\u00d9\u0088\u00d9\u0086 \u00d8\u00b5\u00d8\u00a7\u00d8\u00ad\u00d8\u00a8 \u00d9\u0083\u00d9\u0084\u00d9\u0085\u00d8\u00a9 \u00d9\u0085\u00d8\u00a4\u00d8\u00ab\u00d8\u00b1\u00d8\u00a9\u00d8\u009f\" width=\"738\" height=\"492\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Some of the skills we possess can open up golden opportunities that may shape our lives. One such skill is the ability to speak fluently. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0648 \u0644\u0643\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0624\u0627\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0627\u062f \u0627\u0644\u062a\u062d\u0631\u0651\u064a \u0639\u0646 \u0625\u062c\u0627\u0628\u0627\u062a \u062f\u0642\u064a\u0642\u0629 \u0644\u0625\u062f\u0631\u0627\u0643 \u0645\u0642\u0635\u062f\u0647 \u0647\u0648: &#8220;\u0645\u0627 \u0647\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0641\u0631\u0648\u0642\u0627\u062a \u0628\u064a\u0646 \u0647\u0624\u0644\u0627\u0621 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062a\u062d\u062f\u062b\u0648\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a\u0646 \u064a\u062a\u0631\u0643\u0648\u0646 \u0628\u0635\u0645\u0629 \u0642\u0648\u064a\u0629 \u0648\u0623\u062b\u0631 \u0625\u064a\u062c\u0627\u0628\u064a \u0625\u062b\u0631 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0631\u062d\u064a\u0644\u0647\u0645\u060c \u0648\u0623\u0648\u0644\u0626\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a\u0646 \u064a\u0645\u0631\u0648\u0646 \u0645\u0631\u0648\u0631 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0631\u0627\u0645 \u0641\u064a \u062d\u064a\u0627\u062a\u0646\u0627 \u0648\u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0633\u0647\u0644 \u0639\u062f\u0645 \u062a\u0630\u0643\u0631\u0647\u0645 \u0648\u0646\u0633\u064a\u0627\u0646\u0647\u0645 \u0628\u0633\u0631\u0639\u0629\u061f&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">The answer lies in 12 tips that explain what distinguishes these two kinds of people and how different impressions are formed by their conversations <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u0648\u0623\u0642\u0648\u0627\u0644 \u0647\u0624\u0644\u0627\u0621 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0641\u0631\u0627\u062f :-\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h4>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\">1. Speak with the intention of changing your listeners\u2019 attitudes and inspiring action:<\/span> <\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">As a speaker, you should be clear about what actions you want your audience to take after listening to your talk. But if no meaningful change occurs in <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">your listeners after you finish speaking. If that happens, you\u2019ll know your words had no impact at all\u2014or were worth nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">2. Start strong and draw your audience in from the very first words:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> Begin with a personal story that really happened to you, a quote from an expert, a striking statistic, or something similar. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">This can capture and hold the audience\u2019s attention, while also broadening their perspective and making them more eager <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">to open their minds to the information you share. As a speaker, you should give your audience the chance to notice your personal skills in how you <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">communicate and connect with the subject at hand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">3. Structure the material for your talk into three sections:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> The first section is the introduction, which should include engaging elements that capture the audience\u2019s attention. The second is the main body, where you <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">explore the topic in greater detail. Finally, the conclusion should summarize what you\u2019ve covered throughout your <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">talk. Make sure you understand the material you\u2019ve chosen to discuss, and enjoy talking about the <\/span><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">topic you\u2019re presenting. Be sure to include <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">stories in your talk, as they can help break up a long, uninterrupted speech.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\">4. Practice, then practice some more:<\/span> <\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Practice consistently and out loud, using all the tools you plan to use at the actual event. Work hard on yourself so you can control and manage <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">what you say, which may include filler words or unwanted details. Keep practicing by stopping mid-speech and then starting again, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">and remember to use a clock to check how long you take to speak. Also allow extra time for things that might happen, even if they\u2019re unexpected, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">during the presentation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">5. Know your audience before you address them:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> You can do this by talking to one or two members of the audience who have arrived at the venue. They\u2019re likely to become your allies in the crowd, which <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">makes it easier to speak as if you were talking to friends rather than strangers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">6. Familiarize yourself with all the equipment you\u2019ll use on stage:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> Arrive early enough to inspect the speaking area where you\u2019ll address the audience, and check <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">the microphone\u2019s sound and make sure it works, along with any visual equipment that will help you deliver your message.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\">7. Stay calm and composed before taking the stage:<\/span> <\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Start with a compelling opening and connect it to a personal story you\u2019ve experienced. This can help you make a great start to your talk, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">while also building credibility with your audience, strengthening your connection with them, and creating the right atmosphere in the room\u2014one that <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">suits the subject you\u2019re presenting. Don\u2019t let signs of nervousness take over, and stay calm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\">8. Picture your success:<\/span> <\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">End your speech by imagining yourself surrounded by audience members eager to ask questions, with their applause ringing through the room.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\">9. Make good use of pauses:<\/span> <\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">These pauses should last between 3 and 8 seconds and be placed at key moments\u2014for example, after finishing a story or just before making a statement or sharing something you want to say. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">They help keep the audience engaged and eager to hear what you\u2019ll say next.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\">10. \u0644\u0627 \u062a\u0639\u062a\u0630\u0631:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> The audience may not recognize your apology or fully understand its context.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\">11. \u0627\u0628\u062a\u0633\u0640\u0640\u0645:\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Stay closely connected to the content you\u2019re discussing by smiling. This has a positive effect on you as the speaker and on your listeners. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">So if the audience doesn\u2019t see how much the topics you cover matter to you\u2014through your genuine interest and small gestures like a smile\u2014it will be <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">truly difficult for them to understand how important what you\u2019re discussing with them is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif; color: #00ccff;\"><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\">12. Draw on experience\u2014and make sure you gain it:<\/span> <\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Look for every opportunity to speak with confidence and fluency, and don\u2019t overlook the value of listening to other speakers like you. Remember that it\u2019s essential <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">to prepare thoroughly and well in advance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">This shows that experience builds self-confidence, a key to delivering an effective speech and making the impact you want on your audience.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">In short, we should all recognize that our surroundings are full of resources that can motivate us to make decisions that help us <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">become more professional and more confident in what we do, both professionally and personally. 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