{"id":14889,"date":"2018-07-18T18:15:00","date_gmt":"2018-07-18T15:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/?p=14889"},"modified":"2018-07-18T18:15:00","modified_gmt":"2018-07-18T15:15:00","slug":"art-of-talking-with-others-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ibtdi.com\/en\/art-of-talking-with-others-at-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Simple steps to master the art of sophisticated conversation with colleagues at work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/thumbs.dreamstime.com\/b\/team-working-young-people-talking-together-startup-company-strategy-planning-business-meeting-flat-style-vector-illustration-84664157.jpg\" alt=\"Image result for art of talking with others at work\" width=\"448\" height=\"449\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Work requires you to interact with others, so you should use thoughtful, respectful ways to win them over\u2014or at least earn\u2026 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">\u062b\u0642\u062a\u0647\u0645 \u0648\u0627\u0639\u062c\u0627\u0628\u0647\u0645\u060c \u0648\u0627\u0644\u064a\u0643 \u0628\u0639\u062f \u0627\u0644\u062e\u0637\u0648\u0627\u062a \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0649 \u062a\u0639\u0644\u0645\u0643\u00a0<strong>\u0641\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062f\u064a\u062b\u00a0<\/strong>\u2026with others within the organization.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">1. Don\u2019t speak in a harsh or irritated tone, and avoid slang and colloquial expressions when you first interact with the people in charge of\u2026 <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">Work and colleagues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">2-\u00a0<em>\u0641\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062d\u062f\u064a\u062b<\/em>\u00a0\u0627\u0644\u0631\u0627\u0642\u0649 \u0644\u0627 \u064a\u062c\u0628 \u0627\u0646 \u064a\u0643\u0648\u0646 \u0633\u0631\u064a\u0639\u0627\u064b \u0627\u0648 \u0628\u0637\u064a\u0627\u064b \u0628\u0644 \u062a\u0643\u0644\u0645 \u0628\u0637\u0631\u064a\u0642\u0629 \u0645\u0639\u062a\u062f\u0644\u0629 \u0644\u0627 \u062a\u062c\u0639\u0644 \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0645\u0627\u0645\u0643 \u064a\u0646\u0641\u0631 \u0645\u0646\u0647\u0627.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">3. Refined conversation means looking at the person you\u2019re speaking with and giving them your full attention. Don\u2019t do anything else, as that can make them feel ignored and make you seem <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">unfocused on what they\u2019re saying.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-2\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">4. To be a good speaker, you must also be a good listener. Listening is one of the most important communication skills and techniques.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">5. If you feel some pain or fatigue while talking with someone, try to get through it without them noticing, or apologize to them politely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">6. If you\u2019re participating in a discussion, give others a chance to speak. Don\u2019t talk over someone else\u2014good conversation etiquette <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">doesn\u2019t involve interrupting others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">7. If the other person shows that they are unfamiliar with something, don\u2019t embarrass them. You can overlook it if the subject isn\u2019t important. However, if their lack of knowledge will lead to\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\"> If someone\u2019s behavior is causing problems for them, you, or the work in general, address it tactfully.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">8. When taking part in a discussion, don\u2019t show off your knowledge unnecessarily. It can make others think you\u2019re acting like a genius and put them off.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-8\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">9. Good conversation etiquette doesn\u2019t include making fun of others, and managers and colleagues don\u2019t appreciate it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; font-family: 'comic sans ms', sans-serif;\">10. Don\u2019t use English terms constantly or rely on difficult technical language. 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